I don't know what a "Fetch" is, so....
Basically, a false person put there by fae to hide the abduction of the Changeling.
Hmm, yeah, I looked it up.
Well, Kat is free to treat her as such if he wants, but she's
not. She won't have any of the abilities or traits associated with such. Further, he is
not killing her, or any of her family.
For that matter, Mike, character death is something you learn to deal with.
No, Arch, it's not, not in this context. Go read the fucking rules of the RP. Elf said "no killing without permission" for a
reason.
If you want to RP your characters dying, that is
your choice. I do not wish to do so, so I won't. If you don't like that, go make your own damn RP for people who fetishise grimdark shit.
The problem is with you there's only one way to have this work which is allowing nothing at all to test your characters. Anything they could conceiveably fail at, you object to.
No, things can test them, I'm just not letting them die. And, you haven't tried to "test" them. Everything you've done has been pretty much inescapable.