Yeah, but that logic applies both ways. If I have something to add then why should I be forced to make up some bullshit excuse for not doing so just because you are online earlier than me?
As far as I am concerned, if you post multiple times without letting me react, then if I have something I want to react to then I will ignore any subsequent posts and react to the first one as I would have had none of the rest been made. Then you can deal with the results of that. It is not reasonable in an RP to not give people the opportunity to react, especially when they are not online or are unable to post immediately.
As for the "dissolving" thing, whilst her being able to disappear outright seems maybe a little odd, I would certainly not expect cutting her head off to have any real effect. She's not a "real" person, her body is just a shadow construct. Killing her in that manner would have no more effect than chopping up Zouken's body does.
And, with the Castle thing, yeah, you're waiting on me, but that is an entirely different issue. We're not forcing you to sit there like a lemon, time is just not running for that character right now. And, that was your choice, not ours, so I have zero sympathy for you.