Part of me wishes I didn't need permission as that's just how symbiotes work, but since he only threatened me with Satoshi instead of telling me to cease and desist out of character I thought he was inviting the struggle.
The biggest problem is that we have a ruleset that enforces pacifism to an extreme because you cant do any permanent damage to anyone ever without their stamp, signature and social security number.
Eh, not so much that- most people have the tolerance for damage to their characters that you can still cause damage and it's fine.
To use a couple of characters of mine as an example, I may have yelled at Mike for the circumstances for which it happened in, for instance, but I still took the consequences for what happened after Rider said what she did to Mille, and now she has to reconcile with everything she's been through (it's not physical damage, but psychological damage, but hey, still kinda counts
).
Tom, while still pretty OP, is presently exhausted because he gave a huge blood donation, and if it weren't for the fact that he can create barriers, he'd have a blade sized hole in his chest right about now. Hell, he had to drop Mooncake's character to even do that in the first place, allowing said character to regenerate, so I still paid consequences for that. A few of my other characters certainly would if they had fought in his place.
The only reason my characters aren't really hurt right now is... well, mostly luck, really. ...Ironic, considering my luck is god awful a good chunk of the time.
That's the thing, you don't have to ask permission so long as death isn't involved. If someone's not cool with something being done to their character, just say so in the thread. Most people are good enough to just do that, and are otherwise willing to roll with the punches. It's just lantz sadly seems to have made things harder to work with in that regard, and is in general a special case.
...I'd say what I think about this whole thing, but as to avoid more of this thread exploding than it already has, I think it's best I refrain.