The problem is that some of the stuff you're saying now doesn't match up with what was said in the RP itself. The castle has to be pretty huge if it can be seen from every point in the city- otherwise there's no logical way it could have that infrastructure and all those rooms without collapsing in on itself. It can't get away with being like a sky scraper because it's built with brick. Even if it's magical Angra brick, it can't get away with that sort of structure, it's physically impossible. Plus if it somehow can because of magical Angra brick, that should pretty much forbid her from making a physical form (I still say that's impossible anyway, but assuming it is actually possible), because the defiance of basic physics here should be putting more of a strain on her.
Again, while people should show courtesy in terms of waiting for people to finish a post if they request it, again, these details and inconsistencies are hard to ignore, and again, in the RP itself it's stated that the castle can be seen from every point in the city. Just because you say something else doesn't undo what's already been said in the RP, and the rest of the details have to comply with what you've already established, lest you destroy what little suspension of disbelief is remaining here.
In other words, while a lot of this is, yet again, poor communication, it does seem like you're just making excuses somewhat. I do think you need to think these things out more carefully and actually listen to what we have to say.