Who the heck quote movies here? As for me, I bring up legitimate arguments from the field of bology and psychology. Our brains are hardwired to help relatives first over strangers because we spend overwhelming majority of our history as species in close knit nomadic packs that competed over resources. Homo Sapiens Sapiens as species is 200000 years old, and our hominid ancestors exhibited similar behavior for millions of years. It takes another millions of years of changing the nature of species.
Yeah, unfortunately your understanding of Biology is not as great as you are making out. We are, of course, hardwired to care more for our close relatives, but that doesn't mean we are not going to care for other people. Further, whilst we did evolve in certain ways, humans now have got to the point where our development has massively outpaced our ability to evolve, and our intelligence is sufficient to cause us to act in ways that aren't necessarily optimal in an evolutionary sense.
Yeah, humans did evolve to compete over resources, but that doesn't mean we're not smart enough to realise that we have no
need to do so, and humans did also evolve to be compassionate to a large extent. There's a reason we have animal rights campaigners, human rights campaigners and so on, and why many people actually support those things. Sure, we do have a bias towards people we know, but we're also pretty good at stretching the definition of "people we know" to an absurd extent.
It depends on the nature of your job. Personally, I simply cannot focus on doing something for 8 hours straight, unless it is extremely interesting. All that ends up happening is that I get nothing done. But, at the same time, my job doesn't require me to do so. For one thing, I often have to wait for programs to compile, run etc., and I also don't really have any fixed time when I need to work, so my work is also flexible. It's not a lack of effort, it's simply that I work in a different way. I have at times done work at home when there was something I needed to run.
Ultimately, I do not have the same view of work as you do. I will try to make sure I get everything I need to get done done, but I am not going to rigidly adhere to an 9-to-5 schedule. You do not have to be self-employed to work flexibly.
My friend worked as a programmer in a machine tools factory during his internship and indeed there was time when nothing particular was expected of him, but you know, instead of procrastinating at Asian porn game forums (or metal music forums in his case) you can do things for self-improvement or socializing with other workers that are not doing currently anything.
Yeah, well, I'm not "your friend". I will live my own life the way that I want to live my life. Plus, it's not just an "Asian porn game forum", it's one that I actually
own, and I am not someone who can easily socialise with random people (plus, I work for a small company, we only have three or four people in the office most of the time, and I
do talk to them when appropriate).
So, no, just because I don't fit into your narrow definition of how people should live, that doesn't mean how I act is wrong. Just like the fact that my sexual tastes do not fit with yours does not make them wrong. You have no damn right to tell me how I should and should not act, that is between me and the people who my actions are actually
affecting (i.e. my boss and co-workers). If my boss is OK with the work I produce, then it is none of your damn business
how I produce it.